Review: Off the Menu

This is a great summer read and one that I breezed through with a cocktail in hand on my patio in just a few days.

Off the Menu is the story of Alana Ostermann and her … well, her life. Her life with her dog, her demanding boss, and her best friends. As the assistant to a dashing and incredibly successful chef and food channel star, Patrick Conlon, Alana Ostermann’s life consists of long hours, a demanding but loyal boss, and the opportunity to follow her first love and work in the food world, rubbing elbows with famous chefs and resting recipes. But between training her boss’ sous chefs, writing out cards on his behalf, and cleaning up his messes, Alanna doesn’t have a lot of time for herself, or her quest for love.

While looking through online profiles one night, Alana unexpectedly stumbles upon R.J., a dashing and successful gentleman who seems to good to be true. He loves food and wine as much as she does, and her beloved dog Dumpling quickly warms up to him. And just as her love life is blossoming, she receives an exciting professional opportunity that would take her away from the frenetic excitement of her job with Patrick, but feed a professional desire she never realized she wanted so badly. But while their relationship blossoms, her priorities shift, and with her boss vying for her attention Alana must make a decision about how to bring everything she loves to the table.

I got completely wrapped up in Alana’s world and the decisions she’s faced with, wondering what’s going to happen next. This is a book that I want to go back through at some point and look at how Stacey wrote it – what was it about this book that captivated me and made me want to read? There’s definitely something here–characters who intrigue, discussions about food that made me want to go cook, and best of all, recipes so I can! The only disappointment I found was that the one recipe i wanted, Alana’s birthday cake, isn’t in the book! Boo! (I can admit it though, that just served as a challenge to come up with the cake on my own.)

This book definitely makes me want to look up some of Stacey’s other books!

Ballis is the Chicago-based author of six novels, including The Spinster Sisters and Good Enough to Eat, and a contributing author to two non-fiction anthologies; Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys and Everything I Learned About Being a Girl I Learned From Judy Blume. She is a consultant and freelance writer, with a penchant for creating amazing dinner parties and meals. For more information, check out her website at www.staceyballis.com, and follow her on Twitter @staceyballis.

 

Summer Staycations

I have never understood the need to get away from the city (or home) in the summer when everyone else does! Stay home, enjoy your time and explore your city when it’s free from crowds. The basis for this four day staycation plan is from Maisie Knowles… what would you do if you had four days at home with no where you HAD to be? Perhaps the August long weekend?

 

Day 1:
Get outdoors! Grab the kids and go on a hike or city bike ride. Bring a picnic and stop at a local park to enjoy tasty snacks and the company of your family. Later that night, meet up with friends and grab some burgers and hotdogs at a local joint, and make a picnic of it!

Day 2:
Be a tourist. That’s right, grab your sun visor, clip on your fanny pack, strap on your camera and start at your city’s tourist center. Act like a visitor and get suggestions on the best places to visit in your city. Remember to take goofy pictures and flash some peace signs while visiting the sites. Check your local tourism website or visitor’s centre for fun stuff to do.

Day 3:
Get wet! Buy a day pass to a local water park. You can find discounts if you purchase tickets at a local grocer or keep your eye out on group buying websites like Groupon and LivingSocial. If a water park isn’t your cup of tea, head to the movies instead.

Day 4:
Be the first of your friends to host a It’s Thursday! (or whatever day you choose) party! Send out invitations a week before and plan a fun theme complete with games, decorations and food. Spend the day partying with your friends and family, and call it an evening early — you’ve had a busy, fun-filled week!

Wondering

if I gave too much

if I give too much

if i expect too much

if the relationship is unbalanced

if i let it get that way

if it’s important

if it’s not, why?

if the answer is yes, now what?

Home Bar Equipment

While we’re on the topic of summer libations, it’s a good time to make sure you’ve got all you need to mix your cocktails before inviting groups of friends over for a summer bbq! PAMA Spokesperson and Master Mixologist Eben Freeman suggests you make sure the following items are in your kitchen to ensure your cocktail experiments don’t bomb.

Speed Pour – Speed pours or pour spouts serve to streamline the flow of liquid from the bottle, helping to avoid spills and ensure accurate measuring; they come in both metal and plastic

Jigger – Jiggers help you follow the recipe accurately, and you’re apt to make a better drink by taking the time to measure ingredients properly. Jiggers come in a variety of sizes and designs – AG  Japanese Style, Multi Level Jigger, Double Jigger with a Handle.

Strainer – A cocktail strainer is an accessory used to remove ice from a shaker. There are many styles available for various uses – Hawthorne, Julep, Mesh Cone. (A Hawthorne strainer with a tight spring will serve you the best)

Shaker – There are various styles of shakers available – Cobbler, Boston, Parisian. Mixing glasses are sold separately and are used for stirred drinks. Much like shakers, there are a variety of styles of mixing glasses – Yarai, Japanese Paddle, Stemmed Mixing Glass

Barspoon – More than just a spoon, this handy tool can be used for stirring and layering a variety of drinks. Barspoons, like other bar tools, come in a variety of designs – Trident Barspoon, Barspoon with Muddler, Teardrop Barspoon.

Hand Juicer – Great cocktails are made with great ingredients, so use only the freshest juices. A hand juicer allows you to squeeze lemons and limes directly into the mixing vessel.

Base Spirits – All you need to get started is a great bottle of gin, rum, whiskey, vodka or tequila to make a variety of cocktails. Based on your drink preference, getting one bottle each of two base spirits, which will be enough to make a handful of drinks. The extra stuff is then just that – fun, extra stuff.

Liqueurs– The measure of a good bar is the presence of an array of liqueurs used to mix and modify recipes. But since a home bar typically provides a limited space, choose one or two that are agreeable with most base spirits. Eben recommends PAMA Liqueur for its sweet-tart balance that brightens the flavors of even the most classic cocktails. It makes an exceptional partner with all base spirits. It can replace Sweet Vermouth in a classic Manhattan and jazz up the flavors of an ordinary Tom Collins

Bitters – There are an array of cocktail bitters to choose from, such as orange, celery and peach bitters. If you only have room for one or two bottles, go with Angostura Bitters and Peychaud’s Bitters. Once you’re ready to start getting more advanced, check out Bittered Sling for some artisanal extracts, tinctures and bitters.

Starry nights

Loooook how pretty!! I’m kind of in love with this punch and I haven’t even tried it yet. It’s made with Chilean Pisco, which is something i’m not yet familiar with. I’m – as is most everyone – used to the Pisco from Peru… The information says this pisco is…
a spirit created by distilling wine made from grapes grown in the Coquimbo and Atacama regions of the country, fed with water that flows from the Andes, then rested for a minimum of 60 days before bottling. Its versatility is boundless and allows it to be discovered in a variety of expressions, whether served neat in a rocks glass, in highly curated cocktails or over ice in a punch bowl. Matching the year-round appeal of punch with the diversity of Chilean Pisco creates an ideal summer libation, perfect for any gathering under the stars—and, of course, fireworks.
 Whichever pisco you grab for this punch, (and I’d recommend trying the Chilean if you have the opportunity) enjoy it on the patio, with your closest friends.
Star-Spangled Punch
Ingredients
The peel of 3 lemons, each cut in a ½ inch/15 mm wide spiral with a vegetable peeler
¾ cup/180 ml sugar
¾ cup/180 ml fresh-squeezed, strained lemon juice
1 750-ml bottle Chilean Pisco
1 quart/1 liter cold water
1 star fruit
Procedure
Muddle the lemon peels and the sugar together and let sit for at least 90 minutes. Muddle lemon and sugar again and stir in the lemon juice. Add the pisco and the water and stir. Keep refrigerated until ready to serve. Before serving, cut star fruit into ¼ to ½ inch slices. To serve, pour into a 1 gallon/4-liter Punch bowl with a 1-quart/1-liter sized block of ice in it and float star fruit slices.
Serves 12 people.

letting go

easier said than done.

I had an amazing conversation with someone i count among my nearest and dearest last night for almost three hours. It felt good to just talk about everything without wondering whether or not she would roll her eyes at me or think i’m being an idiot for whatever random thing came out of my mouth at that moment.

One of the things we discussed were friendships – the good the bad and the ugly. I realized, in listening to her talk about letting go of friendships and allowing them to be on their own terms, I struggle with just that.

As I fell asleep last night, I vowed to let it all go. There were people in my life who were there for a time, and for various reasons are no longer there. Many of these relationships are ones i take the blame for allowing to crumble, or worse, feel that i forcibly kicked them to the ground and then beat them senseless. What I realized last night is that – shocker – the world does not revolve around me and while there were many things that I did that contributed to the downfall of these friendships, it’s not all on me. Taking two to tango and all of that mess. Last night, imagining the relationship, the person and what I wished for them, I mentally wrote their name on a piece of paper, set it on fire and let it go.

Denver Vancouver Houston Phoenix San Francisco, your strength amazes me, your children are brilliant and I hope I am able to raise mine to be similar people. I hope that you fall in love with yourself, learn to get over what you need to get over and are successful.

Vancouver, my wish for you is to learn to live without your neuroses, finally be comfortable in your own skin, and raise your adorable daughter in such a way that she doesn’t become a mirror image of you. I forgive you for being so brutally mean – I understand now that it was the only way you knew how to cope.

Montreal, be well.

Calgary, all that could be said has been. I learned from my mistakes and i can only hope that you don’t let my bullshit colour your future relationships.

Other Vancouver, I don’t really know what went wrong and why there was so much angst, but I can no longer dedicate any time to it. It was great while it lasted. I hope you find your place in this world.

I’m giving myself time to breathe, time to get free from underneath all of that and time to continue to grow into my own person.

With love and letting go,

 

sleepnessless

stupid brain won’t turn off.

there’s a million things i’m thinking about tonight from parasitic relationships, time sucks, writing, not writing, how much my body has changed from when i was lifting heavier weights than that guy and whether i can get back there, what to do with the pork chop in the fridge,  maybe eating a peanut butter and jam sandwich without the crusts at 2 am, babies and worse, no babies, the government and their stupid letters, money and how to get more of it and whether i need to worry about that because as i counselled a friend tonight, everything is currently ok, rain, gardens, my garden…

sigh.

this sucks.

ETA: And just when I think this portion of my evening is the crap and don’t know what I want to do anymore, I read the bloggess and remember that life is pretty damn fantastic. And then I yawned. (the previous statements are not connected, but instead are both very good things.)

Puppies On Vacation!

I love love love to travel, but taking Molly (or Jack as it were) with me is verging on impossible. When we went away, we used to board Jack at Rex in Vancouver, and I didn’t know what I was going to do with Molly when I decide to go away. Rex was always a good plan, and Jack was pretty happy, but this is an even BETTER idea.

Enter Dog Vacay (even though I hate the term, vacay, it’s not a word dammit!), a chance for you to find a home for your pooch to stay at while you’re away, with pet owners just like you. It’s like knowing you’ve always got that friend to count on to take care of your pup.

You choose what kind of environment you’d like your dog to be in, what kind of animals the pet sitter has and so forth. Check out a video about how Dog Vacay works:

I’m intrigued enough to want to sign up to host dogs, especially since there’s no one in my area doing it yet (not immediate area at least, there’s someone in the Cowichan Valley and a few in Vancouver). It seems like a brilliant idea and I love the fact that I can make sure to tell the home owner that Miss Molly is a runner for example, and know that chances are, the person looking after her will have experienced this before. This is taking dog boarding to a whole new level and I am kind of in love!

Summer Sippers

Now that I am allowed to drink throughout the summer (for the moment, anyways), my attention is turning back to all the delicious cocktail wonderfulness in my inbox. Thankfully, there’s  a lot of inspiration there!

Summer cocktail, the first:

Fountain of Youth
1.7 fl oz Russian Standard Vodka
2 fl oz Pomegranate Juice (fresh squeezed where available)
.7 oz thinly sliced ginger

Directions
Shake all ingredients vigorously with ice, double strain and pour into a cocktail glass.  Garnish with a piece of ginger, pass a mint leaf around the glass rim.

Rocks, up hill et al

Oh life. you bring all manner of things into perspective.

I bugged hard for a while over a social life. We live in the middle of nowhere, I miss my friends on the mainland with their fun and parties and beer and lives that i no longer have. I have people here, sorta, but it’s not the same.

I shoved hard to Make Friends. I randomly introduced myself to a chick at my local grocery store’s deli because she looked like the kinda person I’d hang out with. We talked on the phone off and on and then drifted. Nothing to anchor us as friends. Went for dinner with a lovely woman then didn’t really connect after that despite saying we would. “oh! Totally! We’ll plan for something! Yes! for sure!” that many exclamation points ought to be outlawed. Tried and tried again and again to find people here. MY people. Still pining for My People at home. (which Vancouver will always be).

Now, I’m both realizing that i’ve been trying too hard (which I kinda already knew) and that i just needed to let what happened, happen. Shocker, I know. Jebus christ on a cracker.

What’s currently interesting (to me)? Hanging out tomorrow with a cool chick and her chick-lette. making plans for friday. and plans for the following week. with people that I just needed to give time to.

here’s me, pushing rocks uphill because it’s faster! We’ll just walk up this hill with this rock …. instead of getting a rock at the top and letting it go.

So, as life does go, here I am, learning lessons every few minutes. It’s like they all pile up and dump on me at once. Thankfully, I’m used to this now. Keep em coming life. :)